Thinking of Divorce? The Chart's Remedy Was Sharing Meals
Don’t just treat the head when the head hurts and the foot when the foot hurts. The greatest strength of fate reading is that it comes at things from the structure as a whole.
Why I Didn’t Encourage the Divorce
I have a client who badly wanted a divorce, and I told her there was still a chance to save it. I didn’t encourage her to divorce — and not because I’m old-fashioned. When a marriage has truly reached that point and the husband is truly rotten through, divorce may well be a good choice.
She hadn’t asked. So why would I butt in and tell her, unprompted, that it could still be saved?
Where the Husband Sits in Her Chart
Because the husband is very important in the structure of her chart.
She is a Fire-type person, and Saturn in her Partnership Palace is her Harmonious Star. Once the Partnership Palace loses the husband, when she reaches her next period, the Horn Mansion (角) period, the problem becomes a serious one: she could easily stop engaging with people and close herself off entirely.
When you’re inside it, you don’t connect divorce with shutting yourself away. She would only feel, without knowing why: how is it that at this point I’ve completely withdrawn? In fact it’s a structural problem — lose the support, and the structure becomes too fragile.
A Remedy Derived From the Structure: Eat Together
So I said that one extra thing: “it can still be saved.” I count it as professional ethics — I know how to resolve it, so I say it, do what I can and leave the rest to heaven. Nor will I tell her “actually your husband treats you very well” and ask her to be more understanding. If she could do that, she would have done it already.
What I gave her was a concrete action derived from her structure: share meals with her husband — eat together. That was all, and the problem was solved.
This kind of method isn’t something ordinary common sense would come up with; it comes entirely from the structure of the chart.
That’s how you avoid treating the head when the head hurts and the foot when the foot hurts — looking only at what’s in front of you and saying “this person will divorce” or “should divorce.” That just restates the present, and doesn’t help the person at all.
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